Planning with Kids : Preparing for holidays – Driving with kids

For us, it makes
sense to go on a family holiday by car due to travel costs and the
volume of luggage we have to take with us. I have family in Mildura (550
kilometres north-west of Melbourne) so we’ve driven the Calder Highway
to Mildura countless times. Each time, we find some way of refining or
improving our preparation for the trip. With breaks along the way to let
the children run around, this trip can take us anywhere from six to
eight hours. This is a long time for kids to be in a car, so preparation
is the key to ensuring that the trip is a fun experience for everyone.

Preparing for a car trip

Before I pack for a long car trip, I write a master checklist of what to take:

children’s clothing

food packs

bedding

important extras

miscellaneous

activity packs.

This list is broken into a number of smaller checklists. 

Children’s clothing

We
involve the kids in the packing process and ask them to help choose the
clothes they should take. Once they’ve decided, I draw up a checklist
for them to use when packing (see table 1). As not all the kids can
read yet, the checklist has both words and pictures.

When
we go on short trips, I ensure we take enough clothes so I don’t have
to do laundry while we’re away. However, when we stay with family I do
try to wash so I don’t have to take too many dirty clothes home with us.

Table 1: children’s checklist

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Food packs

If
we’re travelling for more than one and a half hours, we definitely have
to take food for the kids. They’ve made it clear to us that they may
starve unless they’re fed bi-hourly! We have a people mover, so for
logistical reasons — and also to encourage independence in the kids — we
make individual food packs. Each child has a backpack in which to store
all their items for the trip. We make it clear that the food has to
last the entire journey, so they need to pace themselves.

Since
we started this a number of years ago, long car trips have been much
more peaceful. There are no complaints of ‘I’m hungry’, ‘What’s to eat?’
or ‘I need a drink’. Each child can access their pack and eat whatever
they like, when they like. The exception, of course, is our toddler. He
hates being left out so we pack him his own backpack as well and the
non-driving parent passes his food and drinks to him as he demands them!

As
I suffer from motion sickness, it also helps me, as I’m not constantly
turning around passing food to the kids, which can often kick off my
nausea. If the kids eat junk food while travelling, their behaviour
worsens, so I try to keep the food as healthy as possible. I also try to
include foods that are low on mess, are filling and are easy for the
younger children to manage independently.

The
additional positives to packing our own food are that it’s cheaper than
buying food along the way and it gives us greater flexibility with
regard to stopping for breaks during the trip. If they’re sleeping, our
little ones tend to wake up if the car stops so we’re happy not to have
to stop. This way our breaks are not dependent on finding a place to buy
food — only somewhere with toilet facilities and space for the kids to
stretch their legs. Table 2 lists a typical
food pack.

Table 2: food pack for six-hour road trip

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The
kids aren’t the only ones who need refreshments on a long drive. As far
as food goes, my husband and I prepare very similar packs for ourselves
as we do for the kids (only much less). We take water, but I like to
pack some cold drinks as well. We make our own ice packs by placing
ice-cream containers of water in the freezer for a few days beforehand
to use during the trip for keeping the drinks cold. Whenever we’ve
travelled with a baby we also used these ice packs to keep their food
fresh.

Bedding

When
we travel we often stay with family. As there are a few of us, we
usually have to bring along sleeping paraphernalia such as pillows,
sleeping bags, camping stretcher and a port-a-cot. A couple of the kids
also have comforters (blankets) of some description, so it’s important
for my sanity that they’re packed too.

Important extras

If
we’re going away for a particular celebration such as Christmas or
Easter, I prepare a list of everything we need to take for the occasion
(Christmas presents, Easter eggs and so on). If we’re going camping I
list all the gear we’ll need, such as a tent, camping stretchers,
torches, cooking implements and an esky.

Miscellaneous

Although
we could survive without the items listed in table 3, they do ensure
that our time away is as stress-free and fun as possible.

Table 3: Miscellaneous items

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Activity packs

Individual
activity packs (see table 4, overleaf), help children to pass the
time on long journeys. Our kids can access them whenever they want to.
They each choose what goes into their pack so we’re quite sure they
contain plenty of things that will entertain them.

Table 4: children’s activity packs

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Tip: Surviving the car trip

Once we’ve organised
everything at home, made our checklists and ticked everything off, it’s
finally time to head off. With five kids confined to the space of a car
for upwards of six hours, we need to have a few strategies up our
sleeves to ensure the family car trip doesn’t turn into a nightmare.

Car ventilation

Even when travelling in
cold weather, I’ve found that to keep everyone feeling as fresh as
possible, you need to have adequate ventilation and fresh air coming
into the car throughout the trip. We found that out the hard way!

We’ve had a people mover
for several years, having bought the new vehicle a couple of days before
we headed to Mildura for Christmas one year. We went through our usual
packing process and were on the road by mid morning. It was a very warm
summer’s day and we’d only travelled for a bit more than 30 minutes when
our eldest child, who was sitting in the back, threw up (not the ideal
start to a family holiday). After cleaning him up and then cleaning the
car, we asked him how he was feeling and whether he had any idea why he
was sick. ‘I was hot and stuffy’, was his response. It turned out there
was a separate switch for turning on the air vents in the back of the
car that we didn’t know about. We hadn’t turned them on and it was very
stuffy for the kids at the back, which caused him to feel nauseous. This
is now one of the first things I check when we embark on a long
journey!

Sun protection

We
don’t have tinted windows or fancy shades for the car to block out the
sun. As with ventilation, it can make the journey quite unpleasant for
the children if they have the sun beating in

on them. We use the old method of placing a light sheet across the window to block out any direct sunlight on the kids.

It’s
possible to get sunburnt inside cars, and we’re particularly mindful of
this because our kids are all fair-skinned. Having the kids apply
sunscreen in hot weather is essential.

Setting expectations

We
tell the kids how long the drive will be and how often we’re likely to
stop to pre-empt the many questions we would otherwise hear throughout
the trip. This also helps them pace themselves regarding what they eat
and when. For the older children I print out a map of the route so they
can see where we are and which towns are coming up. This gives them a
reference point for their location, and helps build their map-reading
skills.

Audio books

We
have a rotation system in the car for long trips whereby everyone has a
turn at choosing a CD. We all love music, but usually, a couple of
hours into the trip, someone will request an audio book. When we play
one of the older boys’ favourite audio books there can be two benefits:
they’re entertained, and the hypnotic sound of the reader’s voice tends
to send the little ones off to sleep!

Adequate breaks

It
can be tempting to drive without stopping to reach the end destination
as quickly as possible. However, we’ve learned that a long trip is more
pleasant and memorable if we stop and have rest breaks for the driver
and give the kids run-around time.

As
we take our own food, we tend to take our breaks at parks, which are
more interesting and fun for kids than a roadhouse. We take along a
football for the kids to kick, and they use the play equipment and
toilet facilities. After a break such as this we all get back into the
car feeling invigorated and refreshed.

Interaction

Listening
to audio books and working on their activity packs are great ways for
kids to pass the time, but the family car trip is a group experience so
interaction is a must too. It can be simple things such as discussing
landmarks that we pass, or counting the animals we see. Or we play car
games such as:

car cricket.
You can make up your own rules, but ours go something like this: a red
car = 1 run; a truck = 4 runs; a motorbike = 6 runs. The batsman is out
if we see an emergency vehicle, are passed by another car or cross train
tracks.

‘I Spy’. This is popular because it’s easy even for our young children to join in.

‘20 Questions’. This is a traditional game where one player thinks of something and keeps it to themselves.


Everyone else in the car takes turns asking a question that can be
answered with either ‘yes’ or ‘no’. If someone guesses the correct
answer, it’s their turn to think of something. If 20 questions have been
asked and no-one has been able to guess correctly, the answer is
revealed and that player has another turn.