Initializing the Kitchen : Kitchen Equipment (part 9) – Unitaskers

2.2.2.4. Unitaskers I know, I know…unitaskers. Some unitaskers are worth making space for, though, because of how well they perform their particular tasks. Box grater. A simple box grater for grating vegetables, cheese, and butter (for cutting into pastry dough) can save a lot of time. Sure, you can use a food processor with a … Read more

Will my family ever accept my partner?

In a quandary? Ask Zest’s self expert, Emma Kenny. As psychologist, counsellor and life coach, no dilemma is beyond her repair. “Tell your sister you’ll only attend if she invites him. If she says no, don’t go. She’ll get the message.”  ‘My family exclude my partner and it’s putting a strain on our relationship. We’ve … Read more

Supporting Your Teenagers : Balancing Freedom with Responsibility

Just because you’re willing to make some adjustments to your family’s schedule to support your teenager’s growing independence doesn’t mean that you have to—or should—rearrange your family’s schedule to accommodate everything your teenager wants to do. If you’ve shown respect for your teen’s scheduling needs, your teen should show a reciprocal respect for the rest … Read more

Supporting Your Teenagers : Agreeing on Schedule Flexibility

Up until the teenage years, children generally are pretty happy if they’re told when they have to do things. But with a growing sense of independence, your teenager may quickly decide that such time-dependent scheduling is being “treated like a child.” What can you do to alleviate the stress this situation causes without having your … Read more

Your Toddler Month by Month : 2–3 Years – Communicating with your Toddler (part 2)

Bilingual families Children under the age of three who are raised in a bilingual environment are believed to learn both languages simultaneously, with no detriment to developing language skills. The easiest way to support language-learning is to be consistent in approach, perhaps by adopting a “one parent/one language” approach at home or by agreeing that … Read more

Initializing the Kitchen : Kitchen Equipment (part 6) – Weight Versus Volume: The Case for Weight

1.5. Spoons & co. Few things symbolize cooking more than a spoon, and for good reason: stirring, tasting, adjusting the seasoning, stirring some more, and tasting again would be virtually impossible without a good spoon! I prefer the wooden variety. In an age of technology and modern plastics, there’s just something comforting about a wooden … Read more

When the guy do not get along

Boys seem to be a non-scandal choice to “chat” about your girlfriends and about the person who broke your heart. Then, why is everything so complicated? The kind of friendship you have with your closest male friend is quite amazing. He is the only person you can be yourself with, the one giving you the most sincere advice on your love life and who you can see on Friday evenings without having to buy a new … Read more

The best decision I ever made

Whether it’s changing hair colour or switching faiths, sometimes truly amazing things come out of the most unexpected choices “Becoming a Muslim has made me a better person” Author and TV presenter Kristiane Backer, 46, lives in West London.  “I converted to Islam 16 years ago, after a relationship with the Pakistani former cricketer Imran … Read more

I will never get close to my mother

She had always longed for a mother that she could have a heart-to-heart talk. Instead, her mother kept her down. In the end, she had to make a choice. Growing up, my friends liked to stay the night at my house. My mother would bake crumpets and listen to their stories about the boys. My … Read more