You are taking care of a young angle and sometimes you will feel exhausted and powerless with the development and accrued things when you are mothers. You have doubts about your ability of being mothers and so you will lose confidence.
Sometimes you will feel exhausted and powerless with the development and accrued things when you are mothers.
The following advice will help you recover self-confidence and you will really become wonderful mothers in your children’s eyes.
1. Skip the sinful guilty obsession
No one is perfect and you aren’t an exception. However, this thing doesn’t mean that you will guilty because you don’t know the way to take care of your children thoughtfully, you cannot spend all time staying with your children, you will feel be worried about something that you can do better to take care of your children so that children won’t be ill or unpleasant.
You must understand that mothers have the similar mood, especially when they become mothers in the first time and you should remember that your children don’t recognize this thing yet.
2. Be stable with your point of view
As mothers, we ourselves must decide many things that relate to our children’s health such as which food you should feed your babies, which clothes you should let children wear and how children drink.
To those decisions, you always meet comments and suggestions of your relatives and friends. In this case, if you aren’t stable, you will fluctuate and you will meet the result.
Therefore, you should be self-confident about yourselves and you should believe the things that your heart advises to do the best things for your children. Other people’s advices are only used to refer to help you have more exact decision.
You should be self-confident about yourselves and you should believe the things that your heart advises to do the best things for your children.
3. Confide with your husband and other members in family
When you have difficult in taking care of your children or you feel anxious about your ability in educating your children, you should find a person that you really trust to confide.
Your companion will be the best choice because sharing that thing with your husband will help you feel comfortable and this thing also improves his responsibility with children.
When you have difficulty in taking care of your children, you should confide with your husband.
You can confide with your mother or your older sister or close friend because saying about the things that make you feel worried will make you feel more comfortable. When you receive the sharing and encouragement sincerely, you will feel more self-confident to do your vocation.
4. Ask other people for help
In raising children, sharing of husband and wife is a necessary thing. However, you also need the help and exchanging experience with grandparents, parents and friends.
You shouldn’t think that only you possess children. If you are happy and receive the help of other people and study the experience from other people, surely, you will feel comfortable and self-confident to complete your responsibility.
5. Believe in your ability
Maybe you don’t know that in the process of taking care of and educating children, if you aren’t self-confident, this thing will have negative effect on children. Children will be affected by your characteristics and in the future, children will become the people that lack self-confidence.
You must think that you will do well. For example, when children cry, you must find the way to sooth them according to the ways that you know and since then you can recognize your strong points instead of being intent to think about your weak points.
You must always think that you will become a good mother. This is the important thing in anything, especially doing the role of father, mother.